Hi Crowd!
A little more than a year ago I wrote about the end of social media. I think a lot of what I wrote there holds true and is more obvious from this perspective, especially if you consider the trajectory X/witter is on. Regardless of how you personally feel about Musk or any of his choices (like removing block functions and unbanning abusers) the fact that he's moved from apolitical to heavily pushing one side, and will have a role with the incoming government, it's fair to consider things objectively. If the US government set up a social media app today I don't know that many people would be rushing towards it, nor would they trust it to be open, fair, objective, or secure. Well rando normies might but most people I interact with online spend a few minutes thinking about privacy and security and take that into account at least somewhat. I think it's probably reasonable to hold X to the same standard, which I also imagine for a lot of people it now fails.
For the moment I'm still there, though I cancelled my pro+ check mark thing a while ago (yet still seem to have the perks) and admit it's mostly nostalgia and cryptotwitter keeping me engaged, but for how much longer I can't say. I have been revisiting some of the newer decentralized options I've talked about in the past, and making a more concerted effort to spend time elsewhere. Truthfully, a future where I never even think about social media gets more appealing everyday, but without it I don't know how to communicate or stay in touch with anything but a very small group of people, and everyday the thought of consolidating to only that gets more appealing, but for now I still need to work and let people know what I'm doing, so I'm still in the game.
Given that, I thought I'd share a bit what I'm playing with and how, for anyone that wants to follow along.
My one big realization is that there's no way for me to be 100% engaged in every app all the time, so while for much of the last almost 20 years Twitter has been my primary goto, I'm actively trying to shift primary to Bluesky. The addition of account switching was big, and the recent launch of deck.blue will make anyone who still misses the golden age of Tweetdeck feel warm and cozy. I also really like being able to use my own domain as my username which serves as verification that I am who I say I am.
For a while now Bluesky and Warpcast were my kind of alternating 2nd and 3rd place though I'd admittedly sometimes go days or weeks without looking at them. At one point they were both very much Twitter clones with a dash of their own flavor, and while they've both grown a lot since then and there's lots of factors and issues to consider, the big thing for me is that anytime I went back to Bluesky it felt immediately familiar where as every time I'd go to Warpcast I'd feel lost and like I was starting over from scratch. I don't understand the recent change with channels and while I'm sure if I set aside a few hours I could get up to speed I'm just not motivated to do that, because I feel like I might have to do the same thing next month to get up to speed on whatever the next major change is. It also feels like it's getting kind of hostile in ways I just don't have time to worry about. So while I have the account there I'm admittedly not paying much attention. This is feeling kind of similar to Mastodon for me at this point, I'm there but I never go there.
I very occasionally look at Nostr and when I do I use Nos or Damus on iOS. The web interfaces I used before don't seem to be working anymore and I haven't bothered to look into why or what else might be a better option because it still feels very heavy inside baseball bitcoin land there, which is fine, just not my vibe. I don't even know how to link my profile, so yeah.
I'm using native apps, but also enjoying some of the 3rd party options taking advantage of the open protocols to allow interacting with several different accounts in one place. On iOS I just set up Openvibe to sync Bluesky, Nostr, and Mastodon - so with that I might be passively engaging more with Nostr and Mastodon than I had been in the past. It sounds like Micro.blog does that too, and also syncs with other places like Medium, Tumblr, Flickr, LinkedIn, Threads and others which I was initially intrigued by but while you can set up a free account to read a combined timeline you have to pay to post anything which was too much friction for me at the time. I'm not opposed to paying for apps at all, don't get me wrong - I pay for a lot of apps, but no free trial + similar functionality that I have elsewhere + short attention span worked against it here. I may revisit later but I think Openvibe sort of covers the bases.
I'm not on Threads because Facebook, though recently I was wondering if I was being too much of a hardass about that so I asked on some of my feeds if I should try it out, and the admittedly biased group of people who bothered to respond to me were split at about 10% enjoying it and saying I should join, and 90% saying it's just another algo driven feed by a major company pushing things I may or may not want to see and same drama as elsewhere so I think I'm still avoiding it for now.
This is all largely text focused, for images it's a whole other collection of fun.
I'm still using Instagram, which yes I know Facebook, but I was there before and just never left, though haven't converted to any of the meta/facebook/whatever stuff they have brought in which probably hurts me but the dumb thing is that in order to file a DMCA report with Facebook for something on IG - something I need to do from time to time - you need to have an IG account. So, yeah.
Sunlit is apparently a very nice Instagram clone/replacement made by the Micro.blog team, but when I tried to look at it I needed a MB login for it which I didn't have at the time so still haven't checked it out, but others seem to like it. Popset, Rodeo and Perma are also interesting next-gen photo/image blogging apps (Rodeo being more art focused) which have the bonus of being on-chain though that aspect is obfuscated for the most part, so onboarding is easy and if you don't want to think about web3 stuff you don't have to, but if you want to take advantage of it there it is.
I think we'll see more and more of that in the future so it makes sense to have that foundation in place on new things being built.
For chat I spent a lot of time with Telegram these days, and Signal being a close second. Admittedly I'm not on Discord as much as I once was and can't remember the last time I opened Slack. It's for this reason that Beeper has my attention. I haven't gone through the paces with it yet, but it looks to be a chat aggregator similar to Openvibe but for Signal and Telegram and Instagram and Slack and Discord and LinkedIn and Facebook and WhatsApp and several others so that might be a great option for people struggling to juggle between all of those places.
One final thing I'll leave you with that I also have only lightly scratched the surface on is Delta Chat. Despite it's name, it's not a chat app - though maybe it kind of is? It's actually an email client but it's not like any email client you've ever seen because the UI is 100% chat focused. Gone are subjects, addresses, CCs, etc - all the things you think of with email. It really breaks your brain if you add your main business email address to it, however if you have a secondary address that you just use for friends and family and mainly just talking (vs sharing big files or something) it might be interesting to play with. I'll dive into email more later, some other time.
That's all for the moment, see you out in the ether...